The Women Helping Other Widows support group will welcome a bereavement counsellor to their first September meeting.

Founded by Marion Rattray, WHOW is a local group that provides connection and support for widows in the Kiama area. 

Rattray says the decision to bring in a professional came from a desire to offer more structure to the meetings.

“We’ve had a couple of meetings already, and I felt we needed a little more direction,” she said. 

“That’s why I’ve invited a bereavement counsellor from the Illawarra Shoalhaven Local Health District to join us.”

The counsellor will attend the meeting next Thursday (4 September), which will be held from 2–3pm at the Lecture Hall, Kiama Uniting Church. WHOW meets on the first and third Thursday of each month at the same time and location.

A bereavement counsellor is a trained professional who helps people navigate the emotional and practical challenges that come with the loss of a loved one.

Rattray started WHOW after losing her husband and realising how valuable it would be to connect with others who truly understand the experience of grief.

“Widows all have one thing in common - we’ve lost our husbands. But each of us faces different challenges,” she said. 

“Some are wondering whether to sell their home or find accommodation that better suits their needs.

“What really makes a difference is the companionship of people who understand. If you’ve had a long and very happy marriage, I think the grief hits even harder. That’s why I felt there should be something just for widows.”

WHOW offers a warm, welcoming space where widows can share their experiences - or simply listen. There’s no pressure to speak, and all widows are invited to attend.

Even if you can’t stay for the full meeting, Rattray encourages anyone interested to drop in for a chat and enjoy some afternoon tea.

For more information, contact Marion on 4233 2490.